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Todayas woman has greatly increased her expectations for potential mates. She is independent, and is finding greater opportunity in the work place and in her personal life. She sizes up partners with never before seen speed, assessing a manas strengths and weaknesses without delay.

Picture a woman who has planned her life flawlessly; attending her ideal college, and finding her ideal career. She enjoys her life and decides it is time to consider a serious relationship and possible marriage. She will apply the same care in planning the romantic aspect of her life as she did in planning her professional life.

What would such a woman be looking for in a man? That would ultimately depend on the womanas values, her personality and more than likely her past experiences with relationships, including not only romantic ones but those with her family. She may be looking for a man who is comparable to her. A man who has worked as diligently as she in choosing his career and lifestyle. She may be looking for someone who follows the same standards as she experienced with her own mother and father. That which is familiar and she finds comfortable. Or she may be looking for someone who is her opposite, one who challenges her into seeing new and exciting ways to look at the world around her.

Weighing all these options, she will have choices as varied as there are personality types. If she finds a man that compliments her own outlook, he will be just as hard-working and dedicated as she is; someone who has attained his personal goals through perseverance. She will be attracted to confident man with a strong sense of self and direction.

If she is searching for someone she can recreate her parents relationship with there are different qualities to look for there as well. Perhaps her childhood home was presided over by parents completely committed to one another, who took most seriously their pledge of loyalty to one another and faithfulness. Or her parents could have had vastly different personalities that never the less fit together comfortably and ended with them recounting their separate days at dinner. She could have also potentially found her childhood home a lonely place with little affection or devotion and could still be comfortable living that way. She would be looking for a man capable of little intimacy, someone who shares her life only as much as he shares her space in the home.

A woman looking for new thrills and excitement will desire someone capable of stimulating her thoughts and actions. A woman like this might like a man that is eccentric, jumps from project to project, and who creates a little mystery as to who he truly is; a man like that would be very creative, someone who throws caution to the wind.

We may never know what a woman truly wants, because she may not sincerely have placed in mind a specific character. Women are as different as men. She can be interested in someone who comprises all of these qualities. A man who is hard working, with a diligent attitude but also exhibits tendencies to stray from the norm and is adventurous.

We should never forget that like men, women search for the traits they find most attractive. They will be looking for men who they desire mentally and physically. Women are mysterious creatures often defying explanation; and accepting that mystery as inevitable will bring you closer to what their ideals really are.

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