You’ve broken up with your ex but since that day you’ve experienced nothing but regret. If she also had regrets about the break up, then winning her back would be much easier. But asking her outright may be too chancy, so perhaps a little subtlety is required here.

First, you ought to think about the circumstances that preceded the break up. Were they extreme? If the break up came about because of a bunch of small things that snowballed into something big, she probably regrets breaking up too. But it gets less clear if there was a lot of anger and hostility in the break up. If this describes your situation, then you have to look for signs from your ex that she desires to come back.

1.) Is she having adjustment troubles? If so, the relationship is still a big part of her life. For her, the break up is still causing pain.

2.) Has she asked to remain friends with you? This shows a desire to keep a connection with you. Being her friend is a very good situation to be in. You have a wide open channel of communication. Eventually, you’ll be able to use this to get her back.

3.) Does she voice regret over her conduct during the breakup? This suggests a need to make things right.

4.) Does she offer compliments about you when you talk? Even a roundabout compliment about your tie or your new car is meaningful.

5.) Is there anyone new in her life? If there’s been no relationships since the break up, maybe it’s too difficult to let go of the old times she had with you. Perhaps no one else can take your place.

6.) Has she remained in contact with you? This includes answering your phone calls as well as initiating calls and conversations herself.

7.) Are you learning anything from her body language? If there’s still a love interest, her eyebrows will slightly lift and her eyes will widen upon noting your presence. Another hopeful signal are dilated pupils. Other signs include quick hair adjustments and protracted eye contact.

8.) Another sign of her interest is mirroring. Mirroring are things like an unconscious imitation of your body language or of your mood. Rhythm, loudness and the tone of your speech can also be mirrored.

9.) Is the word “you” used a lot in her dialog when she talks to you? This is a clear indication of interest in you since 2nd person speech is more personal than third person.

10.) Does she still like doing all of the small things for you? She certainly would not do this if she couldn’t stand you.

If some of these signs apply to your case, your prospects of getting her back look good.

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