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How to Allow Your Heart’s Desires

by Dick Ingersoll

“Allowing,” in relation to the Law of Attraction is a tough thing to describe because it’s a state of being, rather than a state of doing. It’s a process of releasing any effort to control what occurs around you and instead allowing the cosmos to work on your behalf.

Staying in a state of allowance can be challenging for some people because they are so accustomed to taking action in order to get what they want. Allowing your heart’s desires may seem contrary to this approach, but it’s really just a matter of taking varying actions and choosing a positive mind-set.

Below you will find some basic steps to help you move seamlessly into a state of allowing.

Sit in silence.

Meditation is the fastest and easiest way to get into a state of allowance because it places you immediately into the process of watching and being, rather than doing. As you focus on letting go of fear and frustration, you encourage a flood of inner peace and acceptance in to replace them. This mind-set removes obstacles and removes resistance, which leaves only . . . allowance!

Do what you love as often as possible.

Allowing is not just about getting what you want, but rather figuring out how to open up to the natural flow of joy, passion and abundance that is open to you at all times. When what you do is what you love, you immediately attract a flood of positive energy into your life. Yes, this can absolutely help you attract what it is you want, but it also puts you into a position to gain a lot more than you asked for. Instead of just gaining one thing you wanted, you find yourself in a continuous state of surprise and joy as more and more great things come your way.

Think positively.

This should be a no-brainer, since the majority of us are completely aware of the benefits of positive thinking. However, don’t limit your positive thinking in relation to your current goal only! Figure out how to construct a true positive thinking habit, and spread it evenly through your entire life. Think optimistically, speak positively and act positively whenever you can. You’ll be happier, increase the frequency of your energy and stay in a steady state of allowance.

Have unwavering faith.

A lot of us tend to flip-flop between immense faith and crushing doubt. Our faith is sturdy when everything is going fine but as soon as we run into problems, uncertainty knocks us out of kilter. The real test of faith is being able to hold it while in the midst of difficulty! It might not be simple, but remember that having faith is an option. You can opt to trust in and know that everything will be fine, or you can opt to believe it won’t. When difficulties come knocking on your door, select your mind-set wisely.

Detach completely.

Most of us tend to revert back to childish antics when we want something. We assume if we can just nag the universe to death, it will give in and give us what we want. So we continue meditating and praying and visualizing. We spend hours mentally begging for what we want, and fixate on it constantly. This is not allowing – it is clinging and grasping! The universe heard your request the first time, so there is no need to continue asking. Instead, tell yourself that time may be needed before it will show up, or it’s also possible that you won’t get what you requested – but you may get something much better!

Be willing to accept to whatever comes your way, believing with all of your heart that it will be completely perfect in all ways.

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