Do You Know You?

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by Alan Allport

How you feel about yourself, your feelings of self-worth, or lack of, colors your thoughts. And your thoughts ultimately drive your actions. It is the actions you take that determine the outcomes in your life. If your life is not going the way you want it to, you should take some time to reflect on your self-esteem levels.

Achieving your goals takes repeated action and you can’t give up too early. High self-esteem can give you the drive, determination, and personal power necessary to take these actions and be persistent until you achieve success.

However, if you are constantly critical of yourself, then these feelings will lower your self-esteem. If you have low self-esteem, then it will be more difficult to take the right actions to enable you to achieve your goals. This link between thoughts and actions is what keeps you from getting started or what causes you to give up.

So what can you do to conquer self-doubt and energize your actions? It all starts with positive thinking. Start off by spending some time congratulating yourself for what you have already accomplished in life.

Everyone has had their share of wins. Make a list of these accomplishments and what actions you took to make them happen. Think about the obstacles that you overcame or what special actions you took to reach each goal. This is a great way to acknowledge your successes and give your self-confidence a boost. Your list of wins will be the foundation that you build on for your future successes.

The central point you must remember is that there is a definite link between your thoughts and actions. You must take control of your thoughts and direct them into channels that will be beneficial to you. Whenever any doubts creep in, pull out your journal.

Negative thoughts should have no place in your life. Banish them. Every time you have negative thoughts that undermine your self-belief, you reduce your confidence and make it much harder to reach your goals.

Make it a habit to tell yourself ‘I can’. Confidence, optimism and motivation to take action are the result of positive thoughts. Positive thinking will give you the best chance of achieving your goals. Positive thinking will help drive away the fears and doubt that lead to procrastination which will keep you from accomplishing your goals.

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