Are there “magic” words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh? I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

“How to get my ex back” will start with getting your ex to return your phone call, IM or text message. Remember, this can be done easily, but it’s just a simple formula and not a complete plan. You can learn more about that in our ebook. If you do this right, it will be the begining of a wonderfull get back together with your ex.

Ok, the first thing you have to learn is what not to say. Many people make this, so I will explain them. This will almost never work, will get you into a disadvantage position and only create a situation where you will not get your ex back

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like “John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.” Of course, this call is not going to be returned. And if it is, you will be in a disadvantage position. You don’t want your ex to call you back because he pities you!

The Emergency call: “Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me”. Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get a the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn’t help, believe me.

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? There are much better ways to get your ex attention back. Since there are a number of methos and a sound plan you can use, let’s start with some of the basic ones.

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest. And here’s the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work “magic” So, Let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

Call your ex and say something like “Hello, it’s me. I just wanted to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. When you get the chance, give me a call so I can tell you personaly”. Can you see how this uses curiosity and self interest in one sweep? Your ex can’t resist calling you back! “What is it that I did?”, “Appreciates what?”, your ex will think. Also, it’s a positive message, so he/she will get in the phone for sure.

Now, Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”, which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be plausible. Think about the times you spent togheter, when she/he pointed something about you, or gave you an advice or maybe let you talk when you needed it most. Surely there are some good things you can think about. But more importantly, Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out BEFORE you call. If you don’t, you will get the call back, and date with your ex, but no more than that and you will be back to square one.

Applying this thechnique, you will have your ex call you back, but you need a strategy to win her/him back. If not, this could do more bad than good. When you have a plan, what you do before, during and after you get them to call you back is even more important that just getting the call. So, this is the basic technique to get them to return a call, now get ready to create a plan to get your ex back.

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